Do me a favor, think back to the last time someone gave you a compliment. What did you do? If you're anything like modern society, you probably did this:
Now, I realize that society has gotten strangely obtuse about taking compliments, putting across the idea that accepting a compliment means you're being self-centered, egotistical and proud. But let's consider that society also thinks things like spoiled rotten pop stars and reality stars talking about their clothes for 30 minutes is ok, and that kinda puts it in perspective. (Also, you probably just made the person who complimented you feel like you don't value their opinion, and far less likely to compliment you again in the future). So let's start a new trend. The next time someone compliments you, let's do it this way:
If you want, you can even compliment them back. Woah! I know, right? Who'd have thought? It'll make you happier, them happier, and encourage you both to give and receive more compliments. Have you taken a step to make the world a better place today? Go on, give it a try. I dare you.
Cheers!
Now, I realize that society has gotten strangely obtuse about taking compliments, putting across the idea that accepting a compliment means you're being self-centered, egotistical and proud. But let's consider that society also thinks things like spoiled rotten pop stars and reality stars talking about their clothes for 30 minutes is ok, and that kinda puts it in perspective. (Also, you probably just made the person who complimented you feel like you don't value their opinion, and far less likely to compliment you again in the future). So let's start a new trend. The next time someone compliments you, let's do it this way:
If you want, you can even compliment them back. Woah! I know, right? Who'd have thought? It'll make you happier, them happier, and encourage you both to give and receive more compliments. Have you taken a step to make the world a better place today? Go on, give it a try. I dare you.
Cheers!
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